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11/02/03 OK, this is a little embarrassing.  Exactly one year later and I finally decide to come back and make an entry.  Well let's see...

She still doesn't speak proper English or Hindi, but she can communicate fairly well in English.  She is learning a lot and it surprises us how often she adds new sentence structures to her repertoire.  She can recite almost the whole alphabet (though she frequently forgets m, n, and r) without help.  Her favorite thing for a while was to purposely mess up "W" because the first time she did it, we all cracked up.

She's fully mobile now.  Running, walking, jumping, getting into trouble, you name it.  She has her own toddler bed, so now when she wakes up, she can get up and make sure that we are aware that she is awake, especially if it's before 6am.

Anisha has shed her shyness and has recently begun to go to people that scared or upset her before.  I think she's learned not to be overwhelmed when someone gets too excited to see her.  She's very well behaved.  People are amazed at her self control.  I'm very proud that she's a good girl, but at the same time, it makes me wonder if she's not getting a part of her childhood experience.  We try and let her do whatever she wants when it's possible but as other parents know, it's a dangerous world and kids just can't be as free as they used to be.  It's kind of a relief when she misbehaves.  Even though I will usually correct her, it reassures me that we aren't raising a robot.

She LOVES her little sister Simran.  She can't say her name yet, so she decided to take a part of a pet name that Ekta came up with.  We were calling her "Sim Sim" and Ekta kept using a verse from a song in the movie Pardes.  It goes, "Sim Sim Bola Bola Sim Sim Bola".  Anisha kept hearing us say "Sim Sim Bola Bola" and decided that Simran's name was "Bola".  We liked it, so it kinda stuck.

Anisha is very protective.  She is always watching and will quickly run over and grab forbidden objects from her hands with a stern, "NO Bola!"  At least once every couple of days, she'll have a hugging session where she can't stop going back and hugging Simran.  Simran, of course, is not quite aware of the significance of this act and gets irritated to no end by the 3rd or 4th hug.  She'll let out a little scream, but is powerless to avoid it, for now...

TV is now her favorite distraction.  We try and limit her to just a few shows a day, and though she gets upset, she's not too bad when we turn it off.  Right now, she's into Teletubbies and Sesame Street on TV, and Winnie the Pooh and (gasp!) Barney on video. 

Our main teaching efforts are in ABCs, 123s, and potty training.  We trying not to push too hard on the potty training, but are there to frequently remind her that she needs to learn.  As I mentioned, she's almost got her ABCs down, but she can also reliably count up to about 7 in both Hindi and English.

11/02/02 Still no talking, but boy does she try!  She's absorbing things like a sponge.  Her comprehension is excellent, but she seems almost bored when we try and get her to talk.  On the other hand, she LOVES to oblige us when we ask her to make animal noises.  Cat, dog, cow, snake, duck, pig, lion/tiger, etc.  It's a blast.

She's all over the place now.  She's almost perfected her balance, but she's still a little unstable.  She walks fast/runs and she'll climb stationary objects.  Luckily, she hasn't figured out how to move stools and the like to reach forbidden areas.

Her smile lights up my day.  Lately, she's become quite the daddy's girl.  When she's tired or shy, she'll run straight to me and it's hard to get her to go to anyone else.  All in all though, she's a very well behaved little girl.  Of course, now that I've put it in print, that's all out the door.

She's taking fewer naps and is losing some of that baby fat.  She's going to need a whole new wardrobe soon.  Luckily, we recently found out that our next one (due in March 2003) is also a girl, so we'll be able to recycle all of the things we've bought for Anisha.  Anisha still doesn't understand that she's getting a little sister, but she does know to point to Mommy's tummy when we ask where the baby is.

She's finally started to take an interest in videos and television.  In fact, when I come downstairs in the morning, she makes sure I get my laptop computer out and show her the kids videos I've got stored there for her.  When we need her to take a "time out" we put on her favorite video with colors and shapes and she's literally glued to it for about 30 minutes.  Now I know how tempting it is to use the electronic babysitter (TV).

8/7/02 Well, Anisha's cousin Sarina Chadha was born yesterday, so setting up her website prompted me to make another entry here.

Anisha is much better at walking, although she got her first boo boo the other day when walking to the neighbor's house.  She was wearing a dress and I kinda caught her, but she still managed a little sidewalk scrape.  Of course Mommy breaks out the field medic's first aid kit!  Luckily I was able to stop her before she administered the morphine and started making the splint.  OK, so I'm kidding, but she WAS upset and she DID go a little overboard, but hey - that's what Moms are for...

Still no talking, but her babbling is getting more complex.  I'm guessing that's a good sign.  Of course, if she's going to be anything like her Sumi Bua, it's a very bad sign...Maybe talking isn't all it's hyped up to be...     :-)

She's getting a little more bratty these days.  She's testing the limits of how much crying and whining will get her.  My guess is so far the "takes pity on me" rating is:   Parents=10% of the time   Grandparents=80% of the time!

Between all of us, I think she knows she's got us.

She LOVES dancing.  Just hum a tune and ask her to dance.  She's ready any time of day or night.  She particularly enjoys bhangra and techno/rave (?!??).  What's a dad to do?  I can see it now,  "Sure Anisha, you can go dancing with your friends, as long as its in our family room and the lights are on."

7/5/02 !  - Yeah, it's been a while...Anisha, when you grow up and read this, sorry for the gap.  Between your 1st birthday party and Sumi Bua's wedding, it's been pretty crazy.

Of course there's been a lot of progress.  She's got eight teeth now.  Her latest "thing" is to pucker her lips and look at you when she's doing something she knows is wrong.  She'll start doing it and then turn to look at the nearest responsible adult with her lips puckered just to show that she knows she's not supposed to be doing it - then she goes ahead and does it anyway.  Like acknowledging that it's wrong makes it OK to do.  Maybe she'll be a politician...

Oh yeah, she's walking!  Just started last week about the 26th of June.  Basically, once everything had died down after the wedding, she had time to practice without 25 people staring at her at any given time.  Along with the walking, the climbing is improving.  We used to be able to pen her into the family room with some strategically placed furniture.  Not anymore...  Now she just climbs right over it.  I guess I've been putting off childproofing the rest of the house too long.  Time to break out the cabinet locks.  The other day, she got into a cabinet and broke a plate on the floor.

Not much progress on the talking front, but I hear that motor skills and verbal skills usually don't develop at the same time.

2/13/02 She's got this funny new habit.  When she gets excited, she scrunches up her face into a grimace-like smile and breaths loudly through her nose.  It's soo cute! (unbiased opinion, of course).  Will try and get video of it.  The problem is, she's so used to cameras now that she stops whatever she's doing to pose as soon as I point it her way. Arrgh!
2/8/02 Another tooth!  I guess lower right center felt left out.
2/6/02 A tooth!  Finally after a few months of teasing us, her lower left center tooth is through the gum and on its way out.
2/2/02 She's pretty much got crawling down at this point.  Not only that, but now, she prefers to head for a sofa or table and walk along it.  She figures that's how she can get to all the good (forbidden) stuff.
1/20/02 She finally got it right!  She's crawling (kinda)!  She takes a few crawling steps and then moves into a slither.  Once she gets what she's going for, she can push back into a sitting position.  We were thrilled. Video is coming soon!
12/12/01 Anisha is trying to crawl now.  So far, the best she's done is when we hold her feet so that she can push off of them.  She sort of flops forward like a seal.   Poor thing.  She tries so hard.  Her latest sound these days is like a complaining laughter.  I'll try to get a sound clip soon since it's really hard to describe.
11/26/01 Well, we just got back from Sumita's engagement and Anisha was wiped out!  She was the center of attention most of the week ("But of course." say Mommy & Daddy) and went to everyone happily.  The big development was that she has graduated from "Ah" and "Goo" to her new favorite, "Buh".  She LOVES saying it and, for the first time, we can get her to say it on demand as long as she's in the mood.  She has also gotten a lot stronger in terms of lifting her torso when she's on her stomach.  She's got the walking reflex and she's beginning to bring her knees forward as if to crawl.  She just needs a little more strength in the hips and legs.  Poor thing seems to have her first case of jet lag today though.
11/3/01 She turned on her side while reaching for a toy today.  She hasn't quite turned over completely, but she doesn't usually like being on her stomach anyway yet.
11/2/01 She slept through the whole night for the first time last night!  She set a new record at 10 hours straight.  Hungry didn't quite describe her disposition when she woke up.  Let's just say she polished off the whole large bottle of milk we had ready for her and did so faster than ever before.
10/26/01 Anisha went to her first jagrata tonight.  She slept most of the night until we brought her out for aarti.  She was quite startled to wake up in the middle of a huge crowd of adults singing bhajans!  Her eyes suddenly opened up wide as she tried to take it all in.  At the end of the evening, she had another first.  We decided it was time for her to sleep in her crib.  She was pretty good.  Only got up one time as usual.  So far so good.
10/13/01 Last week, we all went to Las Vegas because I had a convention to attend.  Anisha loved it!  Imagine her face when she saw all of the lights.  Actually, don't imagine it, go see the pictures!
10/7/01 Well, it's been a while since my last entry, but a lot has happened.  Anisha is making a lot of progress towards talking.  In the morning, and when we leave her lying in her playpen, she will spontanteously yell and express herself.  She will respond if we "talk" back to her as well.  It's a lot of fun for all of us.   She's also getting better at grabbing things.  It's quite obvious when she reaches for things although she's not that good at it yet.
9/24/01 When playing with her this morning, she responded directly to my communication.   Of course our conversation consisted of each of us alternating rasberries (blowing air through closed lips) and hers included an impressive supply of drool, but it was a deliberate action on her part to reply in-kind.  Once she can get her mind around some different sounds, she'll be ready for her first words.
9/18/01 She is definitely able to grab things now.  Despite this, she doesn't show much of an interest in doing so.  We are working with her, but it doesn't hold her interest very long.  Unfortunately, the TV does.  Ugh.  So now we rarely have the TV on and if we do, we try and turn her so she can't see it.
9/13/01 Today was the first time I noticed her consciously pick up an object.  She looked at and picked up one of her stuffed toy rattles and put it in her mouth.  She quickly got frustrated, but it was a big step.
9/10/01 Anisha gave me my first sample of the joy to come.  She gave me a hearty laugh while we were playing in the morning.  For the rest of the day, I didn't care what else happened, I was floating on a cloud.  Of course, I haven't been able to get her to do it again since, but I'm sure she'll reward me again soon.
9/6/01 Well she found her feet tonight.  In fact, today was a big day for her.  In the morning, Dadi and I had her propped up in a corner of the sofa and she was holding her head up and looking around.  She's gained a lot of stability in her neck.  Then in the evening, I put her in her bassinet and she managed to turn on her side all by herself!  Wow, three things in one day...definitely genius material, wouldn't you say?  ;-)
8/31/01 She's really starting to "talk" these days.  Of course it baby talk, but it's getting more complex.  She's learning more sounds.  She discovers most of her new noises when she's crying.  She made the "w" sound just the other day while crying.  On the down side, she's gets in these moods where she won't sit or lie down by herself.  She'll cry unless someone picks her up.  On top of that, just picking her up is no good.  You have to walk around so that her view is constantly changing.  This mostly happens when she's sleepy.
8/30/01 Anisha managed to turn on her side in her bassinet the other day.  It helped that she was all wrapped up in a blanket.  What really did it is that she has started lifting her legs in the air.  If fact, she brings them all the way up and lifts them straight in the air almost.  My guess is that as she gets better at this, she'll be able to start turning over and eventually sitting up.  She also found her left hand today.
8/23/01 She's discovered her right hand!  She'll stare at it until she can get it up to her mouth.  Of course, when it gets it close enough, she goes cross-eyed!  I'll try and capture a picture for the album.  Half the time, she loses control of the arm and her hand goes flying off to the left or right.  Luckily, she has managed to avoid punching herself with it.
8/16/01 Her active/awake periods are getting longer.  She doesn't talk all of the time, but when she's happy or cranky, she'll let us know.
8/2/01 She has been trying to start talking since about the 23rd of July.  At this point, when she's relaxed and alert, we can get her into a conversation.  Not much noise from her side.  It takes about 30 seconds of kicking her legs with her eyes and mouth wide open to get some sound.  When it comes, it usually surprises her as much as it does us.  Then when we cheer, she gets scared.  Despite these setbacks, dad predicts she'll be joining the lecture circuit within six months.
7/17/01 She is really beginning to notice things now.  If she's looking at someone and they move, she'll turn her head and follow as much as she can.  She seems to be able to discern things up to a few feet away now.  Of course her favorite things to look at (besides mommy and daddy of course) are still the can lights in the ceiling.
7/9/01 Anisha had her second doctors appointment today.  Poor thing got her first shot.   I finally realized exactly what heartstrings are.  Believe me, mine were being pulled.  She was pretty brave all things considered and got a cute little snoopy band-aid for her trouble.
7/8/01 Today, Ekta went out with me to do some shopping.  It wasn't easy dragging her away from her beti, but we managed to get her out.  Let's just say that she wouldn't leave without writing down the cell phone number and placing it directly in front of Dadi (the babysitter).  During the trip, she kept trying to convince me to drop her back home and finish the shopping myself.  She almost made it through the whole trip without calling home, but while daddy was distracted at the checkout line, mommy made a quick call home to check on her darling only to find out she had slept the entire time.
6/28/01 Today she was awake for hours between feedings!  It looks like the jaundice is mostly gone.  Even her skin and eyes appear almost 100% normal again.  Also, she manages to lose that pesky cord that made everybody so nervous.
6/27/01 Finally, Anisha is getting more active between feedings. - Translation: she manages to stay awake for a while.
6/24/01 She had her first bath today.  She doesn't like the bath part so much as the part where she gets wrapped up in a towel and daddy gently massages her hair dry.
6/23/01 Anisha's jaundice appears to be getting worse.  After a call to the doctor, we rush her to the hospital to see if we can catch him while he's still there.  We do and he recommends a blood test.  After a very painful couple of hours (mostly waiting for results), we're told that she's fine and won't need any special treatment.   Mommy's reaction: She starts breathing again.  Daddy's reaction: "Darn straight there's nothing wrong with her!  I could've told you that."  -   First crisis averted.
6/22/01 We brought Anisha home from the hospital today.  She seemed to take an interest in her new surroundings.  We'll hold off on a full introduction to Tansi (our German Shepherd) until later.  She sleeps a lot due to a mild case of jaundice.