| Latest News (from daddy's
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| 11/02/03 |
OK, this is a little embarrassing. Exactly one year later and
I finally decide to come back and make an entry. Well let's see...
She still doesn't speak proper English or Hindi, but she can communicate
fairly well in English. She is learning a lot and it surprises us
how often she adds new sentence structures to her repertoire. She
can recite almost the whole alphabet (though she frequently forgets m,
n, and r) without help. Her favorite thing for a while was to
purposely mess up "W" because the first time she did it, we all cracked
up.
She's fully mobile now. Running, walking, jumping, getting into
trouble, you name it. She has her own toddler bed, so now when she
wakes up, she can get up and make sure that we are aware that she is
awake, especially if it's before 6am.
Anisha has shed her shyness and has recently begun to go to people
that scared or upset her before. I think she's learned not to be
overwhelmed when someone gets too excited to see her. She's very
well behaved. People are amazed at her self control. I'm
very proud that she's a good girl, but at the same time, it makes me
wonder if she's not getting a part of her childhood experience. We
try and let her do whatever she wants when it's possible but as other
parents know, it's a dangerous world and kids just can't be as free as
they used to be. It's kind of a relief when she misbehaves.
Even though I will usually correct her, it reassures me that we aren't
raising a robot.
She LOVES her little sister Simran. She can't say her name yet,
so she decided to take a part of a pet name that Ekta came up with.
We were calling her "Sim Sim" and Ekta kept using a verse from a song in
the movie Pardes. It goes, "Sim Sim Bola Bola Sim Sim Bola".
Anisha kept hearing us say "Sim Sim Bola Bola" and decided that Simran's
name was "Bola". We liked it, so it kinda stuck.
Anisha is very protective. She is always watching and will
quickly run over and grab forbidden objects from her hands with a stern,
"NO Bola!" At least once every couple of days, she'll have a
hugging session where she can't stop going back and hugging Simran.
Simran, of course, is not quite aware of the significance of this act
and gets irritated to no end by the 3rd or 4th hug. She'll let out
a little scream, but is powerless to avoid it, for now...
TV is now her favorite distraction. We try and limit her to
just a few shows a day, and though she gets upset, she's not too bad
when we turn it off. Right now, she's into Teletubbies and Sesame
Street on TV, and Winnie the Pooh and (gasp!) Barney on video.
Our main teaching efforts are in ABCs, 123s, and potty training.
We trying not to push too hard on the potty training, but are there to
frequently remind her that she needs to learn. As I mentioned,
she's almost got her ABCs down, but she can also reliably count up to
about 7 in both Hindi and English. |
| 11/02/02 |
Still no talking, but boy does she try! She's absorbing things
like a sponge. Her comprehension is excellent, but she seems
almost bored when we try and get her to talk. On the other hand,
she LOVES to oblige us when we ask her to make animal noises. Cat,
dog, cow, snake, duck, pig, lion/tiger, etc. It's a blast. She's
all over the place now. She's almost perfected her balance, but
she's still a little unstable. She walks fast/runs and she'll
climb stationary objects. Luckily, she hasn't figured out how to
move stools and the like to reach forbidden areas.
Her smile lights up my day. Lately, she's become quite the
daddy's girl. When she's tired or shy, she'll run straight to me
and it's hard to get her to go to anyone else. All in all though,
she's a very well behaved little girl. Of course, now that I've
put it in print, that's all out the door.
She's taking fewer naps and is losing some of that baby fat.
She's going to need a whole new wardrobe soon. Luckily, we
recently found out that our next one (due in March 2003) is also a girl,
so we'll be able to recycle all of the things we've bought for Anisha.
Anisha still doesn't understand that she's getting a little sister, but
she does know to point to Mommy's tummy when we ask where the baby is.
She's finally started to take an interest in videos and television.
In fact, when I come downstairs in the morning, she makes sure I get my
laptop computer out and show her the kids videos I've got stored there
for her. When we need her to take a "time out" we put on her
favorite video with colors and shapes and she's literally glued to it
for about 30 minutes. Now I know how tempting it is to use the
electronic babysitter (TV). |
| 8/7/02 |
Well, Anisha's cousin Sarina Chadha was born yesterday, so setting
up her website prompted me to make another entry here. Anisha is much
better at walking, although she got her first boo boo the other day when
walking to the neighbor's house. She was wearing a dress and I
kinda caught her, but she still managed a little sidewalk scrape.
Of course Mommy breaks out the field medic's first aid kit!
Luckily I was able to stop her before she administered the morphine and
started making the splint. OK, so I'm kidding, but she WAS upset
and she DID go a little overboard, but hey - that's what Moms are for...
Still no talking, but her babbling is getting more complex. I'm
guessing that's a good sign. Of course, if she's going to be
anything like her Sumi Bua, it's a very bad sign...Maybe talking isn't
all it's hyped up to be... :-)
She's getting a little more bratty these days. She's testing
the limits of how much crying and whining will get her. My guess
is so far the "takes pity on me" rating is: Parents=10% of
the time Grandparents=80% of the time!
Between all of us, I think she knows she's got us.
She LOVES dancing. Just hum a tune and ask her to dance.
She's ready any time of day or night. She particularly enjoys
bhangra and techno/rave (?!??). What's a dad to do? I can
see it now, "Sure Anisha, you can go dancing with your friends, as
long as its in our family room and the lights are on." |
| 7/5/02 |
! - Yeah, it's been a while...Anisha, when you grow up and
read this, sorry for the gap. Between your 1st birthday party and
Sumi Bua's wedding, it's been pretty crazy. Of course there's been a
lot of progress. She's got eight teeth now. Her latest
"thing" is to pucker her lips and look at you when she's doing something
she knows is wrong. She'll start doing it and then turn to look at
the nearest responsible adult with her lips puckered just to show that
she knows she's not supposed to be doing it - then she goes ahead and
does it anyway. Like acknowledging that it's wrong makes it OK to
do. Maybe she'll be a politician...
Oh yeah, she's walking! Just started last week about the 26th
of June. Basically, once everything had died down after the
wedding, she had time to practice without 25 people staring at her at
any given time. Along with the walking, the climbing is improving.
We used to be able to pen her into the family room with some
strategically placed furniture. Not anymore... Now she just
climbs right over it. I guess I've been putting off childproofing
the rest of the house too long. Time to break out the cabinet
locks. The other day, she got into a cabinet and broke a plate on
the floor.
Not much progress on the talking front, but I hear that motor skills
and verbal skills usually don't develop at the same time. |
| 2/13/02 |
She's got this funny new habit. When she gets excited, she
scrunches up her face into a grimace-like smile and breaths loudly
through her nose. It's soo cute! (unbiased opinion, of course).
Will try and get video of it. The problem is, she's so used to
cameras now that she stops whatever she's doing to pose as soon as I
point it her way. Arrgh! |
| 2/8/02 |
Another tooth! I guess lower right center felt left out. |
| 2/6/02 |
A tooth! Finally after a few months of teasing us, her lower
left center tooth is through the gum and on its way out. |
| 2/2/02 |
She's pretty much got crawling down at this point. Not only
that, but now, she prefers to head for a sofa or table and walk along
it. She figures that's how she can get to all the good (forbidden)
stuff. |
| 1/20/02 |
She finally got it right! She's crawling (kinda)! She
takes a few crawling steps and then moves into a slither. Once she
gets what she's going for, she can push back into a sitting position.
We were thrilled. Video is coming soon! |
| 12/12/01 |
Anisha is trying to crawl now. So far, the best she's done is when we hold her
feet so that she can push off of them. She sort of flops forward like a seal.
Poor thing. She tries so hard. Her latest sound these days is like a
complaining laughter. I'll try to get a sound clip soon since it's really hard to
describe. |
| 11/26/01 |
Well, we just got back from Sumita's engagement and Anisha was wiped out! She
was the center of attention most of the week ("But of course." say Mommy &
Daddy) and went to everyone happily. The big development was that she has graduated
from "Ah" and "Goo" to her new favorite, "Buh". She
LOVES saying it and, for the first time, we can get her to say it on demand as long as
she's in the mood. She has also gotten a lot stronger in terms of lifting her torso
when she's on her stomach. She's got the walking reflex and she's beginning to bring
her knees forward as if to crawl. She just needs a little more strength in the hips
and legs. Poor thing seems to have her first case of jet lag today though. |
| 11/3/01 |
She turned on her side while reaching for a toy today. She hasn't quite turned
over completely, but she doesn't usually like being on her stomach anyway yet. |
| 11/2/01 |
She slept through the whole night for the first time last night! She set a new
record at 10 hours straight. Hungry didn't quite describe her disposition when she
woke up. Let's just say she polished off the whole large bottle of milk we had ready
for her and did so faster than ever before. |
| 10/26/01 |
Anisha went to her first jagrata tonight. She slept most of the night until we
brought her out for aarti. She was quite startled to wake up in the middle of a huge
crowd of adults singing bhajans! Her eyes suddenly opened up wide as she tried to
take it all in. At the end of the evening, she had another first. We decided
it was time for her to sleep in her crib. She was pretty good. Only got up one
time as usual. So far so good. |
| 10/13/01 |
Last week, we all went to Las Vegas because I had a convention to attend. Anisha
loved it! Imagine her face when she saw all of the lights. Actually, don't
imagine it, go see the pictures! |
| 10/7/01 |
Well, it's been a while since my last entry, but a lot has happened. Anisha is
making a lot of progress towards talking. In the morning, and when we leave her
lying in her playpen, she will spontanteously yell and express herself. She will
respond if we "talk" back to her as well. It's a lot of fun for all of us.
She's also getting better at grabbing things. It's quite obvious when she
reaches for things although she's not that good at it yet. |
| 9/24/01 |
When playing with her this morning, she responded directly to my communication.
Of course our conversation consisted of each of us alternating rasberries (blowing air
through closed lips) and hers included an impressive supply of drool, but it was a
deliberate action on her part to reply in-kind. Once she can get her mind around
some different sounds, she'll be ready for her first words. |
| 9/18/01 |
She is definitely able to grab things now. Despite this, she doesn't show much
of an interest in doing so. We are working with her, but it doesn't hold her
interest very long. Unfortunately, the TV does. Ugh. So now we rarely
have the TV on and if we do, we try and turn her so she can't see it. |
| 9/13/01 |
Today was the first time I noticed her consciously pick up an object. She looked
at and picked up one of her stuffed toy rattles and put it in her mouth. She quickly
got frustrated, but it was a big step. |
| 9/10/01 |
Anisha gave me my first sample of the joy to come. She gave me a hearty laugh
while we were playing in the morning. For the rest of the day, I didn't care what
else happened, I was floating on a cloud. Of course, I haven't been able to get her
to do it again since, but I'm sure she'll reward me again soon. |
| 9/6/01 |
Well she found her feet tonight. In fact, today was a big day for her. In
the morning, Dadi and I had her propped up in a corner of the sofa and she was holding her
head up and looking around. She's gained a lot of stability in her neck. Then
in the evening, I put her in her bassinet and she managed to turn on her side all by
herself! Wow, three things in one day...definitely genius material, wouldn't you
say? ;-) |
| 8/31/01 |
She's really starting to "talk" these days. Of course it baby talk,
but it's getting more complex. She's learning more sounds. She discovers most
of her new noises when she's crying. She made the "w" sound just the other
day while crying. On the down side, she's gets in these moods where she won't sit or
lie down by herself. She'll cry unless someone picks her up. On top of that,
just picking her up is no good. You have to walk around so that her view is
constantly changing. This mostly happens when she's sleepy. |
| 8/30/01 |
Anisha managed to turn on her side in her bassinet the other day. It helped that
she was all wrapped up in a blanket. What really did it is that she has started
lifting her legs in the air. If fact, she brings them all the way up and lifts them
straight in the air almost. My guess is that as she gets better at this, she'll be
able to start turning over and eventually sitting up. She also found her left hand
today. |
| 8/23/01 |
She's discovered her right hand! She'll stare at it until she can get it up to
her mouth. Of course, when it gets it close enough, she goes cross-eyed! I'll
try and capture a picture for the album. Half the time, she loses control of the arm
and her hand goes flying off to the left or right. Luckily, she has managed to avoid
punching herself with it. |
| 8/16/01 |
Her active/awake periods are getting longer. She doesn't talk all of the time,
but when she's happy or cranky, she'll let us know. |
| 8/2/01 |
She has been trying to start talking since about the 23rd of July. At this
point, when she's relaxed and alert, we can get her into a conversation. Not much
noise from her side. It takes about 30 seconds of kicking her legs with her eyes and
mouth wide open to get some sound. When it comes, it usually surprises her as much
as it does us. Then when we cheer, she gets scared. Despite these setbacks,
dad predicts she'll be joining the lecture circuit within six months. |
| 7/17/01 |
She is really beginning to notice things now. If she's looking at someone and
they move, she'll turn her head and follow as much as she can. She seems to be able
to discern things up to a few feet away now. Of course her favorite things to look
at (besides mommy and daddy of course) are still the can lights in the ceiling. |
| 7/9/01 |
Anisha had her second doctors appointment today. Poor thing got her first shot.
I finally realized exactly what heartstrings are. Believe me, mine were being
pulled. She was pretty brave all things considered and got a cute little snoopy
band-aid for her trouble. |
| 7/8/01 |
Today, Ekta went out with me to do some shopping. It wasn't easy dragging her
away from her beti, but we managed to get her out. Let's just say that she wouldn't
leave without writing down the cell phone number and placing it directly in front of Dadi
(the babysitter). During the trip, she kept trying to convince me to drop her back
home and finish the shopping myself. She almost made it through the whole trip
without calling home, but while daddy was distracted at the checkout line, mommy made a
quick call home to check on her darling only to find out she had slept the entire time. |
| 6/28/01 |
Today she was awake for hours between feedings! It looks like the jaundice is
mostly gone. Even her skin and eyes appear almost 100% normal again. Also, she
manages to lose that pesky cord that made everybody so nervous. |
| 6/27/01 |
Finally, Anisha is getting more active between feedings. - Translation: she
manages to stay awake for a while. |
| 6/24/01 |
She had her first bath today. She doesn't like the bath part so much as the part
where she gets wrapped up in a towel and daddy gently massages her hair dry. |
| 6/23/01 |
Anisha's jaundice appears to be getting worse. After a call to the doctor, we
rush her to the hospital to see if we can catch him while he's still there. We do
and he recommends a blood test. After a very painful couple of hours (mostly waiting
for results), we're told that she's fine and won't need any special treatment.
Mommy's reaction: She starts breathing again. Daddy's reaction: "Darn straight
there's nothing wrong with her! I could've told you that." - First
crisis averted. |
| 6/22/01 |
We brought Anisha home from the hospital today. She seemed to take an interest
in her new surroundings. We'll hold off on a full introduction to Tansi (our German
Shepherd) until later. She sleeps a lot due to a mild case of jaundice. |